Tuesday, May 08, 2007

He's not that into you??

Oh..i was resting a little just now so i was reading this book called "He's just not that into you"...this book is recommended by nicole...thank God she recommended this book...cause this book kinda answers all my uncertainty bout my love life....to be honest, i kinda did a check list on my guy, past guys or any potential future guys based on the book, it just made me realise how much of an asshole most of them are...sighh...i think i wanna turn lesbian already!! Fed up with guys already!

These are the topics covered in the book and some of it are my few favourites which i find it so true!

1)He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out - because if he likes you, he will ask u out!2) He's just not that into you if he's not calling you - men know how to use the phone
3) He's just not that into you if he's not dating you - "hanging out" is not dating = "i dont want to be in a serious relationship" means "im not sure that you're the one"
4) He's just not that into you if he's not having sex with you - when men like you, they want to touch you, always...*urrmm...this is abit confusing*
5) He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else - There's never going to be a good excuse for cheating = "Dont date any man who doesnt know why he does things/or why he cheated on the first place" and " Not only does not respect you or the relationship, he doesnt respect himself enuff to be in a meaningful relationship" and "Dont let any man blame u for their infidelity" - THIS IS SO F***ING TRUE!!!!!!! and last but not least "Cheating is a complete betrayal of trust"
6) He's just not that into you if he only wants to see u when he's drunk - If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgement isnt impaired
7) He's just not that into you if he doesnt want to marry you - Love cures commitment phobia - hmm..very true... True....
8) He's just not into you if he's breaking up with you - I dont want to go out with u means just that = remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company. (SOOOOOO TRUE!!!)
9) He's just not that into you if he's disappeared on you - Sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself = tell yourself y u really need to know why he disappeared...do u really need him to detail every last reason why he didnt feel like seeing you ever again? *very good point*
10) He's just not that into you if he's married (and other insane variations on being unavailable) - If you're not able to love freely, then its not really love = i dont think i need to elaborate more on this...cause in a way u r helping this man to cheat on his wife!! and also "unless he's all yours, he's still hers" - so f***ing true!
11) He's just not that into you if he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak - if you really love someone, you want to do things that make them happy = yeah..someone who pulls u down mentally, cant be any good..cause he makes your self esteem so low and also "Life is hard enuff as it it without choosing someone difficult to share it with" - yes, this always happens to me...sighh...

This book has really opened my mind n all my confusion...i know wat i need to do now...but i just needed the courage...sigh...im useless arent i? always no courage..so soft hearted..and afraid of being lonely...sighh...anyways, im just waiting for the right time to do the right things with my courage on the same time...sounds really hard...hrrrmmmm.... :(

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