Monday, May 31, 2010

The hardship of being a parent...

Lately, i have been getting a little taste of how is it like being a parent... and the feeling sucks...

You see, i have a younger brother and a younger sister, which made me the eldest in the family... and being like 8 years and 11 years older than them... they are of course now at their teens and im like old... They have been giving me too much problem that seriously, i dont know how to help them anymore... All my parents know how to do is work... my mum's mind is always occupied with something else... My dad just basically doesnt care much about family matters... and both of my parents, they are the type that as long as there is no big problem like their stuffs got stolen, or house got burn, dont go disturb them...

With my bro n sis in their teenage years, they obviously have created so many drama n nonsense for me to handle them... and being an emotional me, i always go crazy when little stuff ticks me off... and hence, both my brother and sister regard me as the crazy elder sister... In fact, i think they hate me more n curse me more than my mum.. which it feels kinda hurt to be regarded like that.. but i think its worth it to be regarded like that if they turns out alright and i have done watever i could to stop them being rotten in the future...

When i was younger, i used to hate my parents so much till the extend that i actually curse them to die almost every single day for controlling me, taking my freedom away... going crazy on me.. and i was seriously not allowed to go out at all until like after form 5... i always blaming them n hate them for not understanding me... But now as i grew up, i understood why they did all those... if they had not, i would be a rotten piece of slut...

And now, i think my parents regretted being so hard on me that they gave so much freedom to my brother and sister which i think its too much... too much to an extend of like for exmaple, my sister got exam on coming monday, my mum will still allow my sister the go out the saturday before... like wtf...

Like only yesterday, i confronted my brother for doing something ridiculously stupid and i were to tell u all wat the heck is it u all will be like wtf???!!!! serious shit?? OMG!!! And please dont bother asking me.. i wont tell cause its an embarassing matter... too embarassing indeed that i wanna change my surname adi cause no one in the household bother to take any action on my bro.. Anyways, he was denying it... So, fine... to make a long story short, at the end when i was about to just let him go for awhile since he is going to have exam today... he go nasty and crazy on me... which i had to resort to whacking the hell out of him... And i think he dont feel any pain cause he is like 19 years old.. almost a grown man body n strength but with a 13 years old thinking... And yesterday was like the first time ever my bro got a beating from me ever since he was like 5? I was never the type of people who beat somebody up... and i know that cause my phone stealer friend tried to slap me also i didnt fight back... and also whenever my brother n sister did something wrong, i will always try to talk things out or just scold.. but yesterday, i had to beat him up cause he was being violent n disrespectful... And i seriously hate people disrepecting me when i give them my full respect in the first place...

After beating him up, i couldnt sleep... i had my mind on the incident the whole night yesterday until now... Yes, maybe i was being too harsh... but i also believe in respecting your elders... I even made my mum cried because i beat up my bro... sigh, my mum never change... She loves n spoil my bro as ever... and does my bro ever love my mum as much she loves him??? But regardless, she still loves him the most.. and its obvious... But anyways, i apologised to her today and bought her fav ice cream, green tea ice cream... yuck! But i made it clear to her that i apologised for making her cry but i dont apologise for beating up my bro cause he totally deserve it! If anyone of u know the real situation, everyone would agree.. he totally deserved it!

This incident made think the whole day... all the while i have been having very good relationships with my brother and sister... and bcos i had to occasionally take up the parent role when my mum couldnt do it.. they hate me, and this caused my relationship with my siblings turned sour...

Before my brother incident, it was my sister's problem... I couldnt sleep nor relax in peace each time i think of her and her problem... I kept of thinking of a solution on how to solve her nonsense... Which finally, i got a solution and that solution had made my relationship with my sister improved abit... When its starting to improve and when me n my sister are starting to talk again like when she was little up till like 3 years ago... My sister told me something about my brother which i had to take action and become the parent and being hated all over again.. but this time its my brother's turn! Sighh... luckily i dont have much siblings... Damn, have to note to self not to have so many children next time... 2 is more than enough...

I seriously hope that after getting all these curses from them... they hating me n etc... I would like to think that, at least i tried making them into a better person and tried stopping them from doing something that will ruin their future... i hope one day they will understand why i did all those.. why i went crazy on them, why i did this n that... Like how now i finally understood why my parents did all those to me and im seriously thankful for that... It maybe be tough and i was seriously hating them that time.. but now im really thankful that my parents was being hard on me...

See... im already sounding like an aunty... sigh... signs of getting old...

But seriously, its is seriously tough being a parent and also try to be the cool parent type...

Thursday, May 06, 2010

2nd Installment of Hennessy Artistry 2010

The second round of Hennessy Artistry of 2010!!!

HENNESSY ARTISTRY TURNS UP A NOTCH WITH TWO PARTIES IN PENANG & KL!!!

In May, there will be TWO Hennessy Artistry Party!!! One for people up north! And one for the central region people... Yupp and as always in Penang, the venue will be at QEII, Penang on May 27 and in KL will be at Zouk KL on May 29

The newly revamped Hennessy Mixing Zone is also set to return to allow fans to once again experience the Hennessy Digital Light Art FX booth, Hennessy Mix Master, and Hennessy Mixing Bar. But the highlight of it all, party goers will also again, be able to look forward to the delectable tastes of some of Hennessy VSOP’s signature long drinks – Hennessy Apple, Hennessy Ginger, Hennessy Berry and Hennessy Citrus.

And i still like ginger and citrus better!

So, who is going to perform at both places in the Hennessy Artistry Event?


Summer Daniels and DJ Tempo

Summer Daniels and DJ Tempo are actually two of four members from the electro house hip-hop quartet, a band name: Speaker Junkies. As a band, Speaker Junkies has opened for various acts such as LMFAO, Far East Movement, Sublime, Boomkat, and 2 Live Crew.

Having been heavily influenced by the entertainment scene from a very young age, 25 year-old Summer Daniels is not only a singer but also a model and actress. She recently transitioned from the studio and screen to take her rightful place on stage, microphone in hand, as the sexy front-woman of the band.

Partnering her on stage is fellow Speaker Junkies member and multi-talented Devon Duy Nguyen aka DJ Tempo. The singer, song writer, actor, producer, DJ, music composer and film composer was born in Minnesota and raised in Minneapolis, St. Paul. He has appeared in various major festivals and has played alongside renowned artistes such as Donald Gluade, Thomas Gold, Crystal Method, Felguk, Christopher Lawrence, and LA Riots.

Based in the US, Speaker Junkies has unleashed a new world of electronic music. Blending trance, house, break-beats, and electro into each single, their fresh new vibe is flawless and made especially for the electronic music lover.

Half of the band descends onto Hennessy Artistry with lead vocalist Summer Daniels and DJ Tempo, prepped and ready to unleash their infectious spine tingling tracks.


Joe Flizzow & Sona One

No stranger to the Malaysia music scene, Do you know that Joe Flizzow is actually one half of the internationally renowned Malaysian hip-hop duo, Too Phat?? As Too Phat, he released multi-platinum albums, sold over half a million records and even achieved international recognitions from MTV Asia and Channel V – incredible feats for a local artiste. He has also collaborated with various pop acts from Singapore, Thailand, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Australia, Canada and the United States. Among some of his standout credentials include performances for Linkin Park, the Black Eyed Peas, and Kanye Westhead-honco.

Now Joe Flizzow teams up with protégé Sona One for a ‘throw-your-hands-up-in-the-air’ hip-hop revolution. Promising an explosive, uncut rhyme style added with body-grooving vibes this performance is guaranteed to be something hip-hopper can salivate over.

Sona One’s repertoire is already an impressive list of artistic ventures on canvasses, walls and on stage holding a microphone. With the co-sign and backing of a regional hip-hop icon (Joe Flizzow), Sona One is well on his way to becoming one of Malaysia’s biggest superstars in the near future and he is only 21 years old!! Sona One officially signed with Kartel Records in August 2009. His debut album is expected to be released on the record label in 2010.


Ad Bangers

A combo of two top Malaysian DJ’s make their way into Hennessy Artistry in the second installment. Truly a force to be reckoned with, Ad Bangers is a duo that will bring the house down with attitude! The even fashionable DJ Blink teams up with Didjital (both of Lap Sap) for an idiosyncratic night of electro, hip-hop, house and a few mambo numbers that is sure the pump of the dance floor.

Blink, the hyperactive DJ, producer, promoter and designer, is constantly gorging on information, filing his head with as many bytes as possible. It’s a sound that’s reflected in the infectious upbeat mix of everything and anything that his wildly diverse sets have become unknown for.

Didjital brings to the table his unique style, and takes it on to another level with his versatile selection of music genres; ranging from bassline, fidget and hard electro house whilst mixing it up with his rhythmic scratching and tricks. He is constantly in tune with his crowd, firing spirits up to thrilling new heights.

Their aim: to connect people from the same industry, and integrating creative individuals from all walks of life into a quintessential world of turntablism, featuring a music mash-up ranging from House to HipHop to Mambo.

With more than just music reverberating through the club’s walls, Hennessy Artistry ‘The Global Art of Mixing’ is where music and cocktails find the perfect match. The blending of musical experiences provides the core essence, while Hennessy VSOP long drinks provide the evening’s inimitable spirit to complete the distinct ultimate clubbing experience.

Before i forget, here are some pictures i took frrom the first installment of Hennessy Artistry 2010 which happened on end of march in The Opera, KL...


Beginning of the night...


At the press conference..


See, benefits of being a blogger... i get to be this close to the artistes... this was taken during press conference before the whole event start...


This was taken when it was quite early... 10 plus pm i think... With mini acrobat show n all...


Then later on, there were too many people.. so they had to open that acrobat section to fill in more people... See the amount of people... So, pictures dont lie... Hennesst Artistry is indeed one of the most wanted, must have invitation to get into kind of party...

I had fun on my last Hennessy Artistry event... I get to see the awesome Shawn Lee performed and i get my phone back too... I even did a mini show for the public there to see how i got my phone back (pls note: it was embarassing n i didnt want to create a scene.. but i was kinda forced to)... It was indeed a very memorable event that i will remember for a very long time... I will remember her for a very long time..

I just thought about it... My friendship started with her (as in both of us started getting really close) during a Hennessy Artistry event 2 years ago... and now my friendship with her ended in a Hennessy Artitry event... How cliche...

Ok, so... pls... go visit the Hennessy Artistry website... and lurk around there everyday for the RSVP link to be open.. RSVP it and get invited to the awesome party of Hennessy Artistry...

Again, Main Rules and Regulations to get invited to the most awesome party in Malaysia from Hennessy Artistry...

Passes to H-Artistry ‘The Global Art of Mixing’ is by-invitation only. To obtain invitations to the party at QE II and Zouk logon to www.h-artistry.com.my. Alternatively, to relive the experience of past H-Artistry events or to receive updates on the upcoming party, visit the official Facebook fan page: www.h-artistry.com.my/facebook or follow H-Artistry on Twitter: www.h-artistry.com.my/twitter. The party is strictly opened to non-Muslim guests aged 21 years and above only. ID verifications will be carried out at the door.

To read how much fun i had last year when Hennessy Artistry had its second installment of the year 2009... Click link below...
Second Installment of Hennessy Artistry 2009!

Like OMG! So fast one year has pass already???? Things that had happen in this one year felt like 3 years of things happened man.... So many weird things have happened... and its unbelievable that all those things happen in one year... damnn...